Word 4U Today



To serve others effectively, you must be attuned to what they need.

What keeps us from doing that?


A lady in an airport lounge bought a packet of biscuits and sat down to read the newspaper. She heard a rustling noise and looked up to see the man beside her helping himself to the biscuits. Not wanting to make a scene, she leaned over and took one herself, hoping he’d get the message.

Then she heard more rustling.   She couldn’t believe it. The man was helping himself to another biscuit! There was only one left!

She watched in disbelief as he broke the remaining biscuit in two, pushed half across to her, popped the other half in his mouth, and left. She was still furious when her flight was announced. Imagine how she felt when she opened her handbag to get her ticket out—and found her unopened packet of biscuits!

Now be honest, didn’t you assume the stranger was helping himself to her biscuits?

Of course you did, and that tells you a lot about yourself! Too often we’re guilty of making assumptions about people and once you put someone in a box, it’s hard to think of them any other way.

Do you agree?

Every time a good tailor sees a client, he takes new measurements. He never assumes they’re the same size as they were the last time. That’s a good policy. Never make assumptions about someone’s background, profession, race, gender, age, nationality, politics, faith, or other factors. Once you do, you stop paying attention and miss clues that can help you to know what they really need.

‘To answer before listening – that is folly…’  Proverbs 18:13 NIV


Ephesians 5:1-19

Be imitators of god, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us & gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering & sacrifice to god.

At one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the lord! Walk as children of light! For the fruit of light is found in all that is good & right & true, & try to discern what is pleasing to the lord! Awake, o sleeper, & arise from the dead, & Christ will shine on you! Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time!

Be filled with the spirit, addressing one another in Psalms & hymns & spiritual songs, singing & making melody to the lord with your heart!

You are light in the Lord! Walk as children of light!

Make the best use of your remaining time! Sing & make music to the lord with your heart! Awake today! Never delay!

Bob Gass

June 3rd, 2015

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